Tuesday, November 30

“Porn won over me”

I have been living with a man for nine years and we have two children together.

He’s addicted to porn.

I’m in a lot of frustration. Where is the healthcare system? Where is the help?

I have talked to a psychologist, doctor and nurse, we have been to a cohabitation therapist. Besides the couple therapist who advised me to leave him, had no clear or helpful advice.

I have left the father of the child now, he never managed to stop porn.

Trust was broken time and time again, lies, absenteeism, avoidance. Salary that is not paid because he sat and watched porn during working hours.

You become a ghost of yourself by living with someone with addiction. You change. I lost myself and became a bad person.

It did not help his addiction. Our sex life disappeared. I really wish there was someone who could help me and explain to me his problems.

So here I am, single mother of two children and with the fear of sending them to a porn addicted father.

Where is the guide? Why not get help? I understand that it is the addict who must have a desire for change. If not, it does not work.

I’ve tried so much. Restriction of social networks, parental control on PC and telephone and a number of things.

He watched so much porn daily

He himself said he wanted to quit, but always found a way to get porn. It was a cat and mouse game in the end. As porn won.

I never thought that porn addiction could tear a family of children apart. I did not realize how serious the first few years were. Had never heard of it as a problem.

And lived in a naive hope that we could fix this.

But no, porn won over me.

(TV 2 knows the woman’s identity)

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